Showing posts with label Letters to Littles. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Letters to Littles. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Life a Little Further Down the Road

It’s been awhile.  

Just over 2 years to be exact.  In that time there have been growing kids, multiple moves, new adventures and new friends.  Some days it feels like a lifetime other days I literally feel like I blinked. 



My kids were ages 3, 2 & 1 at that time.  4 toddlers!  I literally have trouble remembering what my life was truly like back then!  



Now, at 5, 4 & 3 many logistical things like going places by myself with the kids or getting them all dressed are so much easier!  They understand they need to hold hands and watch for cars.  They can dress themselves!  (CAN I GET AN AMEN?!?!?!)  Things like discipline and all of them talking loudly at one time are more difficult.  Some days I think I’d trade those days of lining all 4 of them up to change diapers and put pj's on and being awoken in the middle of the night for the newer challenges of the whiny voices, strong willed defiance and lots of differing opinions on every evening’s dinner. 

What I've come to understand is that each season comes with fresh blessings as well as fresh challenges.  I also understand that as I become accustomed to one season another is fresh on its heels.  God has grown and challenged me.  God has put me in my place.  God has blessed my ever lovin’ socks off. 




Here’s to an older version of The Houtz House Party.    

Here’s to continuing to record this story of ours so that J and I are able to look back and be reminded of the moments of our lives that seem to move faster and faster with each step. 

But most of all, here's to little boys who NEVER outgrow those plaid ties.  


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Monday, December 10, 2012

Party on Sesame Street

Just a few photos from the twins 2nd Birthday!


I just LOVE that the mantels in this home make for ENDLESS possibilities for ALL occasions! 


Note the little guy in the bottom right of the above photo.  They had a very hard time being patient waiting for those Elmo cupcakes.


Marshmallows for eyes & tic tacs for a nose.


 
Toy Story Mr Potato Heads & retractable swords were the highlight of the present opening portion of the evening.


It seems Elijah was not in fact a fan of the candles...or was it the Big Bird birthday hat?



 
Until next year...
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Thursday, December 6, 2012

2! - The Birth Story of my Twin Boys


I am so blessed to be co-hosting the Tell Your Story link up today with my good friend Andi from The Hollie Rogue.  This link up is a chance to tell YOUR story whatever that may be.  There aren't a lot of rules for this one.  This is an opportunity to share what's on your heart, what's going on in your life,,,the good, the bad and everything in between.  I can't wait to read what you all have to say!

You can read more about this link up here.

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I always used to joke about how I thought it would be super cool to have twins…

When Ian was about 9 months old we decided it would be a good idea to start thinking about having another baby.  Good thing we thought that because it turns out I was already pregnant!  A little surprising but EXCITING too!

We went to the OB at about 8 or 9 weeks to get a sonogram and checkup.  I will never forget this day or the emotion as long as I live.  I was laying down, Dr Martin started the sonogram and joked about twins, we all laughed and then there was silence and she moved the computer monitor towards her with a funny smile on her face.  Then then turned the computer monitor for us to see…

TWO little people in there!!!  She said, “Maybe I shouldn't joke about twins!”

My leg started to shake and I couldn't breathe.  All I could see were dollar signs and all I could think about was that “other people” have twins!!!  Regular people don’t have twins!!!  I have no idea why “other people” are not “regular people” BUT this is EXACTLY what I thought!  (And yes I was thinking in ALL exclamation points!)    

I find all of this hilarious now.

Neither Mamaw or Meme believed us at first & both Papaw & Pop Pop were shocked and excited.

Working full time, having a toddler (who was a late walker & didn't sleep through the night until well after a year) and being SICK as a dog pretty much the entire time made most of the pregnancy a blur.

We found out at 18 weeks we were having BOYS!  Daddy was thrilled and so was I!!! 

At about 23 weeks we ran into some complications with the pregnancy.  I was referred to the neonatologist at a larger hospital in the area and went for bi-weekly visits that turned into weekly visits that turned into at home bedrest at 30 weeks that turned into hospital bedrest at 33 ½ weeks.  Our sweet Elijah McKee wasn't on the charts and they didn't like what they saw.  I was lovingly taken care of by all my dr’s and nurses and we will be forever grateful for the wonderful care we received.

At 35 weeks I went into labor about 10 pm on December 4th and delivered the boys at 4:50 and 4:54 am on December 5th

Elijah McKee was 4 lbs 1 oz and is the older of the 2.  He reminded us SO much of Ian.  Jacob Dean was 4 lbs 10 oz and had (and still has) bright red hair. 

Jacob was able to come home with me the very next day while Elijah was in the NICU for 3 weeks.  We were blessed to bring him home on Christmas Eve. 


Elijah is no longer that little tiny baby.  He is a big strong sweet loving boy with the sweetest smile you might ever see.  Jacob Dean has such a silly disposition!  He keeps us laughing most of the day every day.  He is SUCH a giving little guy and is (almost) always more concerned about Elijah than himself. 


My sweet boys Elijah & Jacob are 2!!!  Some days I can’t believe how far they've come since those days.  I love them oh so much! But isn't that the same for all of us mamas?  

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Wednesday, December 5, 2012

In The Word Wednesday – Happy 2nd Birthday boys!

Today is our twin boys 2nd birthday. 


Elijah and Jacob I am so blessed to be your mama.  I am so proud of the little people you are. 


As I go through Scripture this week I can’t help but look at my reading in reference to things I want to ensure you know from God’s word.

Elijah & Jacob, “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong” (1 Corinthians 16:13).  I pray you never waiver.



“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).  Love people and be kind my sweet boys.  You have no idea what is going on in someone else’s life.  I know sometimes it’s hard to do even when you don’t agree with that person or that person has hurt you but I promise you when you look back at your life you will be happy you did those things.  I pray you learn that lesson earlier in life than I did.  And don’t forget that even if someone wrongs you are commanded by God to forgive them the wrong. 

The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant
21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”
22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.[g]
23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold[h] was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.
26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.
28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.[i] He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.
29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’
30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.
32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.
35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” – Matthew 18: 21-35



Elijah and Jacob lastly, today I encourage you to use the talents God gave you to serve people in LOVE for that is what we are called to do in Galatians 5:13.

Remember boys…

How much do I love you?  



SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much!
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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Behind the Scenes at the Christmas Card Photo Shoot



You know those perfectly posed photo Christmas cards we all look forward to sending out to all our family and friends...every family member is in perfectly pressed coordinated outfits…the little ones are sitting up straight smiling sweetly at the camera…mama & daddy are content and relaxed.

They are SO a figment of the imagination…or at least I HOPE they are.

The story of our photo is this:  Me running around Thanksgiving morning finding articles of clothing that had a bit of green in them.  Loading the car with kids and food for Thanksgiving dinner at Meme & Pop Pops house.  Getting the kids a snack and then hurriedly getting the kids posed for the Christmas card photo before they broke down because it was really nap time.  Getting outside and realizing not everyone had green in their clothing and worrying for about 2 seconds that perhaps I am color blind.  Meme snapped away for about 5 minutes as twins are deciding they don’t care one bit about said Christmas card photo.  We decide to take whatever we got and scoop up the winey and tired kiddos only to discover Elijah pooped through his jeans onto daddy.  Elijah gets changed and 3 littlest are put down for a nap while daddy begrudgingly wears a pair of Pop Pop’s jeans while his and Elijah’s are in the wash.

And in case you are wondering…the whole point of getting the Christmas card shot on Thanksgiving is being able to use the $5 off coupon for the Christmas card package at Costco before it expires.

Hope you all enjoyed a wonderful Thanksgiving and are getting excited for the Christmas season approaching us!

Monday, November 5, 2012

Hosea & my husband


I am so blessed to have met some wonderful women at church.  I so enjoy the REALNESS of these girls during our weekly bible study and they have no idea how much they've impacted my life.  I truly value each of them.

Recently, we were discussing who in our lives was our Hosea.  You see Hosea never gave up on his wife even though she left him, publicly embarrassed herself and him over and over.  He NEVER gave up.  He NEVER ever stopped loving.

Who saved me?  Who has always been there unwavering even when I didn't deserve it?

A couple of the girls spoke up about their husbands.  I just kept nodding in agreement and couldn't help but hold back my tears…and I am not really the crying at bible study type.  Crying in public makes me a little uncomfortable for some reason.  Anyway, I digress…

I feel 100% that my husband is my Hosea.  I've joked to people at times since J and I got married that I don’t know what God was doing when J and I got together.  Perhaps he was sleeping?  I don’t deserve J in the least.  Not one bit.  Somehow God saw fit to give him to me as my husband and I am so grateful.  Our first year was rough.  You can read about that here.

Honestly my past was a “past”…


I went through that party girl phase.

I was self-absorbed.

I only cared about what I was doing, accomplishing, etc.

wasn't very nice.

J was pretty much perfect.  I was a mess.  I liked to think I was good at hiding it.

I regret that person for the way I treated people I love.  I don’t regret that time though, because I firmly believe that made me who I am and am blessed to share my story in even some small way. 

God redeems.  God loves UNCONDITIONALLY, although I think that much love is almost impossible to fathom. 


I pray to share with my kids one day in a way that teaches so they don’t have to have the rough road to hoe.  Although, to be perfectly honest I've always tended to do things the hard way so I pray.  I pray again & I pray some more that they don’t have that gene. 

I pray their Hosea to find them one day.

Friday, August 3, 2012

I can smile at the old days...I was beautiful then

Touch meIt's so easy to leave meAll alone with my memoryOf my days in the sunIf you touch meYou'll understand what happiness isLook a new day has begun
The song: Memory; From Cats
--I blog so when I'm old and my memories are but dim shadows I can relive some of the tiny moments of this life...


















Tuesday, July 31, 2012

I don’t want to forget what they say & do


That we called Ian the “Turkey Chief” when he was 6 months old and it stuck!  Long story short, J called him “chief” one day and Ian thought that was the funniest thing ever.  So we started calling Ian “chief”.  On Thanksgiving we called him “Turkey Chief” which he also thought was hilarious and he’s been the “Turkey Chief” ever since.


Ian’s called Jacob Dean (yes we use both his first and middle name…always have for some reason) “Ab Dean” since he was born and so now everyone calls him “Ab Dean”.  That’s his name.



Elijah was never really Elijah or Eli he’s been “Lijah” since his first days of life.


That “Ab Dean” does this little kick move that looks like he’s walking really fast puffing out his chest and giggling.  We call it the “Ab Dean shuffle”.  You ask him to do it and he proudly obliges.

That we pronounce Julia’s name more like “JulYA”.  Ian’s pronunciation stuck once again.



She’s the little lady.

Ian pointing to my husbands bare chest and saying “Hairy, why no hair up there?”  pointing to his head.

That Elijah is so flexible he kicked himself in the forehead and left a red mark!

Lijah’s favorite thing to do is color.  He wants to color as soon as he wakes up most days.

Ian LOVES baseball.


Ian is the ULTIMATE protector of his brothers and sister.  He has been since the moment they were born!




Ab Dean LOVES books and still tends to want to eat more crayons than use them to color.

The first time Julia rolled over we missed it.  One minute she was on her back.  The next she was on her tummy.  Yep...she’s our 4th child.

This post was originally going to be a Quinoa recipe.  I’ll share that soon.

Today it was more important to record my memories. 


Thursday, June 14, 2012

What I like about YOU, my Ian


Your sweet innocence.


Your gentle touch with your siblings.


Your excitement over “adventures” even if that adventure is just riding in the car on a Wednesday morning to drop some boxes off at the goodwill.

Your love for walks in the big stroller.


Your enthusiasm for “bringing over chair” to help mama in the kitchen.

Your complete CRAZINESS for anything baseball.


Your squeal because it’s “BATHTIME!!!!!!!!!!!!”

Your willingness to go to “sleepytown” with ease pretty much every night.

Your happiness when we have “Big Cheese” for dinner.

On your birthday week I just wanted to record some of the things I really genuinely like about you my little one.

I am so thankful for you my Ian.